Xiachun japenese guy

Honestly if i had the choice to either stay with my father or go and pursue a life with music and creating it. I would probably choose the Music choice. Me and the Japenese kids lives are also a little different; since my goal in life really is to achieve what the Xiaochun person has the ability of doing no matter what I would choose to go and live my dream. My dad would probably understand. My dad had a chance like this. He was an and still is an amazing artist; but my grandpa told him he wasn't going to support a family off of it and pretty much killed every dream my dad had. He became a machinist with my grandpa and washed out factory on its leg. My dad will always regret it and tells me to pursue what I want. He lost his chance the day he gave into his dad. He wont let that mistake happen to me. But for Xiaochun he has the choice to leave and go back with his suppose dad (foster dad to be exact)or stay and become a famous musician. The pros and cons to my decision would be pretty harsh to me. First off no matter what leaving your family to become what you have always wanted to be is as hard as watching your kid go to college or get married. It will be hard either way since that day will come either way but I have always wanted to do something by myself; and leaving to become what you dreamed of and having to do it on your own seems like a once in a lifetime opportunity to me. In all I would love to have the choice the kid had. Even if it means leaving your family I would come back and see them. But nothing will stop me from being what I have always desired.